Tuesday, November 12, 2013

If It Weren't For The Boy


I started my blog two years ago and as you know, most of them are about the little man in my life. Almost nauseatingly so. I was thinking earlier, as I started yet another “he’s so talented/smart/funny” story, whatever would I write about if it weren’t for him?

My job? Writing, tweeting or posting about where I work is forbidden. Since I don’t want to get fired, I pretty much don’t do it. Oh, but the stories I could tell…

My free time? To be honest, I don’t have much of that to speak of. What little I have is spent writing and spending time with him (and his mother, of course). It would sound kind of like “I went to work today. Then I came home and ate dinner. After playing with someone I’m not writing about just now, I turned on my computer and began writing…” See? Kind of like a fourth grade essay and hopefully not my style.

My family? That would be my girlies and, yes, my little guy. We love spending time together, although time with my younger girl is via Skype. I’ve written about my daughters (as much as I can without running the risk of making them hate me) but they really don’t do anything cute or funny anymore. I’ve already written about their childhood. Their adulthood is pretty much normal (read boring). Who wants to write about normal?

My life? Currently my life is all about fire stations as we are currently touring every one in the city. And NOLA after that. “Our” latest obsession. And if I wrote about that? Well, it would be just another story about the boy and that totally defeats the purpose. I added the photo because it relates to this paragraph, not because it's the guy I'm currently not writing about. Honestly...
 
 

 
 

My dreams? Oh, I have so many. Some are attainable. Some not so much. But I never want to give up on any of them. I will finish that novel. I will be published. I will win the Mega Millions…ok, maybe not that one. If I played the Mega Millions (which I don’t), I would have a chance of winning. Not a good one but a chance nonetheless. But if I write about my dreams, I’d be afraid that someone would read it and ask me in a few years “Weren’t you going to…?” Then I’d be stuck. 

All in all, I believe that I’m better off writing the “he’s so talented/smart/funny” story. My guy makes a good subject, is never boring and is always coming up with new ideas that make me laugh or cry or think. Besides, he's just so stinkin' cute, how can I resist?
 
 

 
 
Stay tuned. The boy will return for the next blog.

4 comments:

  1. Whoa, whoa, whoa!!! What do you mean that I don't do anything cute anymore? Please! Just ask the girls I work with. I'm flipping adorable 24/7. And boring? No offense, but what exactly does an exciting life look like when one has little to no money? I'll have you know I lead a VERY exciting life. You should see my ride to work! Best 6 minutes of my life!

    Okay. So, yes I'm boring. The highlight of my life right now is that I get to put up my Christmas tree in 2 weeks. So sue me.

    And you are NEVER too old to have your dreams come true. I believe in you and I know you can do anything. You're my hero!

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    1. I so knew that you would get irritated by that line. And I'm proud of everything you do. But you don't do cute very much anymore. At least not that I can see! I love you!!! And thanks.

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  2. I believe I would be the boring one. I sit at home and crochet or knit or read a book. I'll admit to a boring life but I have big dreams of crocheting/knitting hats and scarves for homeless people who might be cold in the winter time or crocheting or knitting something cute for the kids who are in hospitals.

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    1. You get to see ALL of Elijah's stuff first. Hardly boring. But as with your sister, you don't do cute. I admire that you want to do something like that with your talent and I will help you in any way I can. I love you!!!!

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